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I met Drew, my now-husband, on a blind date over eight years ago while I was visiting New York for the weekend. I lived in Chicago, and a year and a half after we met, I decided to move to Housewives wants casual sex Northway Alaska and close the gap in our long-distance relationship.

After five years of marriage, it's safe to say that the transition was a successful one. To Women who want to relocate those of you who are in long-distance relationships yourselves and are contemplating whether such a move will be successful for you, too, here's a list of eight things you need to do before you move for love. If it seems too soon or too awkward or too inappropriate to Women who want to relocate marriage or a long-term, serious commitment to each other, then it's too soon, too awkward and too inappropriate for you to uproot your life and move to a new city for love.

If you can't imagine a life together at least five years down the road, then stop packing your bags and stay put until you can. Decide whether you're going to resent your partner if you move and the relationship doesn't work out. Moving for love is a leap of faith for anyone, but if you feel in your heart that you'll be bitter and resentful if the sacrifice doesn't eant to the happy ending you're hoping for, you should reconsider whether you're really ready to make the jump.

Imagine what your life would be like living in your significant other's city. You may love your partner, but do you love his or her city? Relcate the answer's no or you aren't sure, spend more time there and imagine how you'd feel if you never came home. Does the idea of staying there make you feel "stuck"?

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Discuss with your partner what your living arrangements will be in your new city. Will you be living with your significant other right off the bat? Getting your own place?

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If so, how long will you stay? Will you be paying rent? If so, how much? What if your partner has a bachelor pad that you want to re-decorate?

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Would he be open to that? These are all questions you need to discuss together and be in agreement on before you move.

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It's a lot to talk about, but these discussions are much better to have before you make the move rather than after! Relationships combust. Jobs are lost. Feelings change. People get sick. While you can't possibly anticipate every issue that might arise after you move, you should have some idea what your back-up plan would be if your new life in your new city isn't working out.

When I moved to New York, I brought my cats, laptop and two suitcases, but left most of my belongings in storage in Chicago. That way, if things didn't work out between Drew and me, I could move back to Chicago without paying to ship Women who want to relocate things twice.

Women who want to relocate took five months for me to be certain. As soon as I moved -- in the fall of -- the economy took a nose dive and it took me much, much longer to land steady employment than I had anticipated. I ran out of money pretty quickly and I sant returned back to Chicago, where I was pretty sure I could get my old job back. But I stayed put.

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Drew let me stay with him rent-free this goes back to question 4which helped a great deal. I pieced together enough freelance work to pay my student loans and buy groceries, but financially -- as well as emotionally -- it was a hard first year that took a ho me and on our relationship. In the long run, it made us stronger, but Womdn we hadn't been very committed to making it work, it would have been easier to jump ship.

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Decide whether you love this person enough to sacrifice the life you have now. It might help you to write a pros and cons list for both your partner and the life you have without him. Sure, leaving a life you may love for a person you love more will be bittersweet, but the key is you have to love your partner MORE than the life you have without him or her.

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