From the UK: Which is rare. I also HATE small talk, the only thing that would get me I like being alone but i hate feeling lonely meet with someone is a real deep and meaningful conversation. However, this side of me the one that craves real conversations is the side that gets so depressed when im alone …even though another part of me enjoys it.
How do i find people i can have really deep conversations with other than hiring a psychologist haha? Answered by Dr.
Marie Hartwell-Walker on - Link A. Some people by nature need more alone time than others to feel comfortable and to regroup within themselves before re-engaging with others.
I like being by myself, nobody to disappoint me or let me down. My own company is good, I have friends but I only see them when I have to. I like being alone but I hate being Lonely Anyone here, with the same feel? Subscribe Tags: alone lonely myself solitude thought transition. Some people by nature need more alone time than others to feel comfortable and to regroup within themselves before re-engaging with others.
They value deep relationships as much as anyone else. They just need private lknely to balance the drain of emotional energy that comes with social contact.
I think you will find comfort in doing some reading about temperament introverts and extroverts on the web. As for your need for more meaningful conversation: Maybe you are telling yourself you need some more intellectually stimulating friends. Consider taking some advanced classes in art or philosophy or anything that interests you deeply or joining a book club where people really talk aone the books or attending lectures that are offered publicly.
Participation in such activities will help you meet people who will converse on the level you crave. Related Articles Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker Dr.
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